Somatic, Relational & Spiritual Counseling
Life is our teacher.
The next stage of your growth isn't about doing more. It's about becoming more whole.
I’m Jordana Grader, and I work with leaders, creatives, healers and everyday heroes who long for meaning and alignment in how they live.
Together, we bring limiting patterns, stuck feelings, and outdated ways of relating into consciousness.
Through our work, we become more free.
Areas of support
01 Anxiety, overwhelm & chronic stress
02 Depression & loss of meaning
03 Burnout — leadership, founder, caregiver
04 Relational & attachment wounds
05 Intimacy & relationship difficulties
06 Grief, loss & life transitions
07 Women’s empowerment
08 Spiritual development & emergence
09 Creative blocks
10 Psychedelic integration
“I wish I could show you, when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being.”
Hafiz
The Approach
Our work may not look like standard therapy, sitting in a chair and talking about your past.
This approach integrates three streams:
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Modern psychology
Grounded in clinical practice, using somatic, relational, and trauma-informed approaches, as well as ecopsychology.
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Earth-based traditional healing
Harmonizing with elemental cycles, learned through fifteen years of intensive study with traditional healers.
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Contemplative spiritual practice
Including the Diamond Approach and Buddhist views, we penetrate questions of truth and their applications to true health and vitality.
The work is experiential, somatic, relational and presence-based. We don’t just talk about change. We make transformations in the moment and integrate them into daily life, leadership and relationships.
My approach draws on depth psychology, Hakomi Somatic Psychotherapy, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Trauma Training, Relational Somatic Healing, ecopsychology, and over twenty years of contemplative practice, including fifteen years of training with indigenous elders of Peru, the Diamond Approach and Zen Buddhism.
Every barrier is
a doorway
to greater creativity, wisdom, and essential Life.
Working together
Investment
$200
per session. Start with a single session or series of sessions. Scholarships may be available.
Length
60-90
minutes. Single sessions, weekly or biweekly, or as needed for established clients
Where
online or in-person
In person in San Rafael or Sebastopol, or online.
Cancellation
48 hr
notice required to reschedule or cancel.
Questions
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During a counseling session, you can expect a supportive and skilled container to open into your Self.
Using a body-oriented experiential and mindfulness-based approach, we will follow your consciousness to reveal inner blockages to natural states of love and joy, creativity, connection, pleasure, and expansion.
In other words, we seek to unveil your true nature’s infinite intelligence and capacity, which can take any vibration called for in the direct moment. Over the course of development, we cover over our wounds with identities and defenses that protect us for a while, but then they imprison us.
Through our work together, we will gently uncover these limitations and reconnect to the inner vibrancy, vitality, and boundlessness of your own essential Self.
As your guide, I provide a skilled, intuitive mirror to help you reconnect with your own intelligence and uncover vulnerable places. However, more importantly, you will learn skills for your own practice in your daily life and to share with your close of kin.
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In person in San Rafael or Sebastopol, or online over Zoom from anywhere. Many of my clients work with me entirely online. After the intro call, we’ll make a plan for how and where we’ll work together.
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Whatever serves you. We can begin with a single session, and there’s no package to commit to up front. After that first session we decide together whether to continue and at what rhythm. Some people come for a handful of sessions around a transition; others work with me weekly or biweekly over several months, and returning clients are always welcome to drop in for single sessions.
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I kindly ask for at least 48 hours' notice for cancellations or rescheduling. This allows me to accommodate other clients who may be waiting for an appointment. Clients will be charged for cancelling appointments with less than 48 hours’ notice.
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No. I work as a psychospiritual counselor, traditional healer, and meditation teacher, and I’m not a licensed psychotherapist. What that means: I don’t diagnose or treat mental illness, and our work together isn’t a substitute for medical or psychiatric care. What I offer is somatic, relational, and spiritual counseling — support for growth, healing, meaning, and wholeness, drawing on body-oriented psychology, contemplative practice, and earth-based traditional medicine. Many of my clients also work with a licensed therapist or psychiatrist, and I’m glad to collaborate with them. If at any point I believe you need clinical care, I’ll say so and help you find it.
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I hold a Master’s degree in Ecopsychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies, and I’m a graduate of Hakomi, Relational Somatic Healing, trauma training, and other body-oriented psychology trainings. I’m a long-time student of the Diamond Approach and Zen. My most extensive training, though, has been fifteen years of devoted meditation practice and traditional healing training through apprenticeship in a spiritual lineage of Peru.
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Not at all. Most of what I do is somatic, relational, and spiritual counseling that has nothing to do with expanded states. Integration is one thread of the work, for those who want it.
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Support before and after an expanded-state experience: preparing with clear intention, and afterward, making sense of what arose and weaving it into your daily life, relationships, and body. I don’t provide or facilitate psychedelic experiences in counseling sessions.
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I don’t take insurance. Sessions are $200–250 on a sliding scale, and you can begin with a single session — no package required. The intro call is free.
Start the Journey
Let’s connect and see if this work can support you in your potential.
G E T I N T O U C H
Have questions about our work?
Reach out to schedule your appointment or inquire about our work.